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LoobieSlut 38 C
3 Articles
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A thrid member   11/21/2005

Me any my girlfriend have for a while been toying with the idea of a threesum, or maybe even particapating in an orgie. However of course there is the issue of the small doubts and trust issuses that i suppose are bound to exist. Such as the thought of will this destroy what we have together? <br> I guess there are a fair few couples in this place who have added a 3rd member to ...


3 Comments, 235 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
plyphos 52 M
7 Articles
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Kama Sutra Positions - The deep one   11/21/2005

This is a position of total penetration, of there its name. With the high and opened legs, it waits to that his companion introduces the penis in his vagina to wear his legs in shoulders of him, who will support his hands to regulate the movement. To many women she can seem to them complicated, uncomfortable or painful the visualization of this position, but she is worth the trouble to ...


0 Comments, 350 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
toytammy 38 F
2 Articles
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Pee and scat play   11/9/2005

I enjoy pee play and have been subjected to scat. Pee is filted by the kidneys before being realeased. But with shit its body waste. I beleive pee is safe but not sure of shit. What are your comments if you have any. tammy


6 Comments, 812 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
enchanteddreams0 46 C
13 Articles
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Does she really want a daddy? need advice!   11/7/2005

First a bit of history, My wife hasnt had the best life. she refuses to seek councling so now i must play that role, sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesnt. about 2 years ago she lashed out, fealing the way she did when she was a and had an affair instead of talking out her problems with me. that is something we are still working on today. anyway i guess this is how it kinda all ...


3 Comments, 311 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Bicouple1212 58 C
1 Article
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looking for information   11/4/2005

I am a 40 year old dominate female with a bi male slave. We are not 24/7 but he submits to my every whim sexually. I have had his cock pierced 7 times (though the head and down the shaft) and now I want to tattoo my name on it. Does anyone know of a place in Saskatchewan where I could have this done. Mistress C.


1 Comments, 327 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
freakyswinger28 40 M
3 Articles
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Past swings... Want to do it again   11/3/2005

I was swinging with a bi-couple a few years back and want to do it again. This went fine the first time and eventually we grew apart after about 2 years. I would like to swing with them again. i am still friends with them and we talk every so often. How can I approach the subject again without being so straight forward.


1 Comments, 168 Views, 0 Votes
Empress_Victoria 54 F
6 Articles
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Scroto Infusion   10/19/2005

The following is just for information only, please do not attempt this unless you have had training in this technique. <br> First of all as with all Medical Play, before you start you need to make sure you have all the right sterile equipment and fluid and that you know how to use it safely. The best thing to use to inflate the scrotum is a venflon - pink venflon ...


4 Comments, 3669 Views, 90 Votes ,5.88 Score
SwitchNRound 59 F
4 Articles
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Nothin' worth havin' is easy   10/13/2005

Hey Bob... <br> (B.O.B.) is a dildo <br> my philosophy on the subject: vibrators <br> <br> I have worked hard all my life for everything I have, well, anything worthwhile that is. So, Why should an Orgasm be any different!? See..vibrators do all the work for you, and therefore the orgasm is taken for granted and not ...


2 Comments, 275 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
sadisticbyach 48 F
3 Articles
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Read the Profile Guys!   9/29/2005

I dont know what it is with the men on this site but out of the 15 or 20 e-mails I get not one of the guys has followed the instructions in my e-mail. I took plenty of time making this profile just right and I get everything from topping on the bottom to guys that still think I want a pic of their dick. I am not talking to your dick so that does not turn me on. What turns me on is ...


4 Comments, 416 Views, 22 Votes ,5.05 Score
a2m4u2me 55 M
10 Articles
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How does ALT compare?   9/23/2005

Hopefully they won't censor this...but, in general, how would you rate ALT compared to their competition? As with most things, there are things they do well and things they could improve upon. But, based upon your experiences, how do they rate? Who are some of the other notables that you've used before and what did you like or dislike about them compared with ALT?


2 Comments, 201 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
a2m4u2me 55 M
10 Articles
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When are you on ALT...   9/23/2005

When are you usually on ALT? In the morning before work? At work? After work? Late at night? What's the best time you've found to be signed on and catch somebody?


2 Comments, 67 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
a2m4u2me 55 M
10 Articles
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Ass to mouth experience anyone?   9/23/2005

Checking any porn engine, you can quickly check out the latest sex techniques. Anal appears to be virtually almost 100% mainstream now, but ass-to-mouth has emerged as the latest anal installment. Are you engaging in this? If so, what do you think? Compared to seeing it in videos, what's it like? What good about and bad about it that you wouldn't see in a video? Also, how ...


6 Comments, 456 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
a2m4u2me 55 M
10 Articles
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Oral nouveau...   9/23/2005

Judging by checking out any porn engine, deep-throat/throat-fucking/ cock-gagging has emerged as a newer technique. The featured article in the Adult FriendFinder Magazine is for Big Gulps, talking about this in porn, which claim started in 1997. How about your experiences? What's better or worse in practice as opposed to the edited world of porn we see? What are your ...


1 Comments, 175 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
a2m4u2me 55 M
10 Articles
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DP Advice???   9/23/2005

Having never experienced a DP, but always wanted to, I'm curious about it. Have you been on both ends? Do you prefer one end over the other? What are some pros and cons that you encountered that porn stars have already worked out? From a getting-to-yes perspective, what approaches did you find that did and didn't work in convincing the woman to try it?


0 Comments, 132 Views, 0 Votes
a2m4u2me 55 M
10 Articles
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Women: your first anal experience?   9/23/2005

The usual response to asking a woman about her first anal experience is, "It was awful; I never wanted to do it ever again." It was with a guy who was so surprised she agreed, that he couldn't even concentrate on being careful. Truth is, he was just fumbling around and ripped her good. <br> <br> Some girls stuck to their guns and have refused every anal ...


4 Comments, 337 Views, 0 Votes
sincity06969 65 F
5 Articles
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Am I wanting for to much from this Dom?   9/21/2005

Maybe the expectations a sub has towards her Master it too much for him to live up to. Every time he does wrong it taken hard and deep in side of her. She looks up to him, like he should have no imperfection, But we are people and we all have them. His word, as large or small, she will hold him to it. The disappoiement of him not following through can feel devastating to his ...


6 Comments, 333 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
bzeeb 61 M
1 Article
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How do you tell   9/18/2005

OK I joined this site because I noticed that where I work sometimes a few women liked to be strangely and inappropriately bossy and controlling towards me shortly after meeting me. I am often beside myself as to why-I can't see why anyone in my line of work would want to boss another around rather than mind their own business. It occured to me that maybe one or more of them might be into ...


3 Comments, 205 Views, 6 Votes
MSSimone 58 F
2 Articles
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Psychology of fear   9/16/2005

Our Lifestyle’s Fear Factor By Mistress Simone Worthington <br> <br> <br> <br> "I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be ...


5 Comments, 300 Views, 10 Votes ,5.77 Score
MonkMasochist 39 M
4 Articles
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It's NOT about humiliation   9/12/2005

Whilst I can not speak for every one on this site who is looking to experience their submissive side, I do urge a word of warning to all Doms and Dommes. TOO MANY on this site think that submission is about humiliation. For myself (and probably many others) submission is much more about the thrill of cooperating or giving consent. The thrill of consent ensures that fun is involved. At the ...


0 Comments, 272 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
voyagar69 51 M
2 Articles
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Do most think BDSM is about haveing sex or not?   9/11/2005

Not clear on this myself I heard to sides what do you think. For me wanting to be someones Sub. I want to sexually pleasing to my Mistress and to anyone she want me to make happy. Also to do thing she orders me too do. Let me know I am really new to all of this thanks, Chris


3 Comments, 121 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
voyagar69 51 M
2 Articles
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New to the BDSM   9/10/2005

I live in colorado Spring adn I am new to the BDSM life style and would love to learn more. I have been wanting to do this for a long time not sure were I would need to start at. I hope someone from from the springs reads this and can let me know more about places to go and things like that. Thanks for any help at all.


0 Comments, 111 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Carl86 37 M
2 Articles
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Not interested?   9/5/2005

y name's Carl and I've got a question. <br> Why have the people I meat just interested in physical appearances? Is a beautiful body more important than the beauty of the mind? Has society gotten so out of control that all we think about how ugly we are and how me must improve upon ourselves? Or have we fallen so low that we no longer think that one's personality matters? ...


7 Comments, 172 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
SweetDenial 67 F
7 Articles
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Domestic Violence or Play   9/3/2005

A woman decided the relationship isn't working and is leaving and the male beats this woman up. Blackens both eyes, nose bleeding bruises around the face and arms and she is kicked twice in the side. <br> The courts aren't sure if this is acceptable behavior in this lifestyle. What would your argument be to the court


13 Comments, 446 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
hOtCaRmElFuDgE 42 F
8 Articles
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passer bye   8/24/2005

when u take a chance at romance, make sure the guy is true. He sees plain blank what u want, and knows ur on the hunt for him. <br> He need not to scare easil cuz the woman don't act like a sleazy. ur a flower that didn't bloom well, try to make u think is there such theing as heaven or hell. <br> why doesn't a bird spread out his wings, you never know it ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 0 Votes
slaveseeker61 62 M
2 Articles
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The local BD/SM community   8/21/2005

I'm new to the ALT lifestyle and I have a question that I want to direct to members from Minnesota. Is there a BD/SM community in either the twin cities or Duluth? I am interested in joining and either location would be good as I live about half way between both.


0 Comments, 79 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
artfulgeorge 41 M
1 Article
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Cyber's   8/14/2005

There is nothing worse than when you put time effort and dreams to waste in a person and they end up being all about cyber and not about the 'real' thing. <br> I met a very promising Domme on here last year. We talked on MSN, we exchanged e-mails and we spoke on the phone. She would send me pics and I would return pics too. <br> We organised a meeting, which she never ...


2 Comments, 83 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
jillyshub 57 T
6 Articles
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Strap-On Fun without damage   8/1/2005

This weekend my girlfriend tried out her new toy, a leather-harness and trap on and I was the lucky recipient. Unfortunately, even though we got some special "Anal Lube" I still ended up with some rectal bleeding. Can any of you experienced strap-on users offer us some advice, 'cos i really loved the experience + am desperate for round 2, but don't want to end up in casualy (E.R.) as a ...


6 Comments, 799 Views, 15 Votes ,3.28 Score
aquanut6969 49 M
1 Article
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Am I too far out?   7/25/2005

I often wonder if I'm too far out, even for the 'alternative lifestyle' group. My fetish has to do with very long hair on lovely women, in and underwater. I can only get enthusiastic if a woman a.has gorgeous very long hair, b: is willing to play in and underwater, and c; enjoys it like I do, rather than just putting up with it. Hair color doesn't really play a big part of this fantasy, or ...


1 Comments, 147 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
mrcleannow 58 M
3 Articles
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wanting to explore male feminizing to learn more   7/25/2005

I would like to learn more about how a women feminizes a man. I would like to chat with some more experienced ladies who do this to get a feel of what happens and how it all works. Anyone willing to help a newby out?


1 Comments, 211 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
sissygrlshaky 44 F
8 Articles
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Is he being spoiled or better humiliated   7/24/2005

I cant help but watch this slaveboy I live with sit in the best clothes a girl can have yet all he does is complain. My job is to make him the prettiest girl I can for mistress and I have done so very well. But is he getting spoiled when he doesn't like the $350 dollar satin dress with gloves and heels? This is something he didnt even have to pay for. His bondage is even made soft and ...


1 Comments, 331 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score