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Role-playing? Fantasy? You make it sound like it's all some kind of game. 4/29/2006
It is. You're exercising your imagination, and you're
playing a game with the other person. You get to be the dominant;
your partner is the submissive; you're playing the
role of the mad scientist who's just kidnapped someone
and is going to use this poor innocent person for evil experiments.
Or whatever. (There are people who do this all the time--one
always the dominant, one always the ...
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In tune with your submissive? The dominant is the one calling the shots. What does the dominant care 4/29/2006
Believe it or not, the dynamics of a BDSM relationship are
often driven by the submissive, not by the dominant. The
submissive sets the limits; the submissive decides what
places can and can not be explored; the submissive has the
ability to call a halt to the scene. The dominant, in many
ways, is simply a facilitator. It's the dominant's
job to create a setting where the people involved ...
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BDSM Tip Sheet for Beginners 4/29/2006
1. Do BDSM only with people you know well and are on good terms
with, and when both of you are in a good mood. Trying to do
it with strangers, or when either of you is tired or upset,
dramatically increases the degree of risk. Avoid significant
use of intoxicants. If you're not in condition to drive,
you're not in condition to do BDSM.
2. Keep "reality" out of it. Unless both of you ...
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away for awhile 4/27/2006
this one is sorry for the extreme absence, she has been restricted,
by those who called themselves friends, from using the
net. Things are a great deal different.
Smiles to A/all
lilone
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a thought on this site 4/13/2006
I'm thinking people that activly post and reply on
this forum part of the website would be the most probably
to actually get involved personally, beyond the site.
As in, if I see someone post a lot in my area, there's
a much greater chance they'd actually respond to mail,
or meet up for a night out.
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I can't vote 4/13/2006
Whenever I click on the links to vote on articles or responces
i get a weird error. Anyone else getting that here?
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ALLOWING ANYONE IN 3/29/2006
Its a shame that we have these in here promoting
there pay web sites and that this site is not looking into
this more. This site should be open to us in the lifestyle
and to the others who are looking for enjoyment. But to write
back and bullshit you about wanting to meet and when they
want you to visit a website which requires payment is total
crap to me. But to each there own this is ...
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D/s Introduction 3/28/2006
D/s is sensual, sexual, intense, intimate, and fun. D/s
involves an exchange of power, an exchange of control,
an exchange of trust, and an exchange of energy—physical,
mental, emotional, and spiritual. D/s play uses fantasy,
reality, and ritual. It involves elements of theater,
and performance art. D/s can also be very spiritual; it
can lead to personal and interpersonal growth; and in ...
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Airports 3/28/2006
Has anyone ever heard of a man wearing a metal chastity device
setting off the metal
detector at an airport as he passed through?
Did he he have to strip in front of the staff to reveal the
reason for the alarm?
Just thought I'd ask. Sounds like the most delicious
public humiliation to me!
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The importance of compatibility 3/28/2006
I think that when people hook up that they need to examine
their compatibility status. Are they looking for the same
things, do their personalities match? People are too eager
to just get the "quick fix". I think that by comparing
compatibility that the encounter will be much more pleasant,
and fun.
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Hair or no hair 3/26/2006
I am wondering what do men and women like when it comes to
body hair. I like a woman who has hair, goes good with my beard.
I feel that hair in certain areas is very nice, can rub and
play with it. As long as the woman keeps herself clean, there
is no problem at all. No hair can be nice too, don't get
me wrong.
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Shaved or natural 3/25/2006
What do women prefer? Men that are shaved or natural.
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Fetishes... Where do they start from? 3/24/2006
Fetishes they say everyone secretly has at least one!
Me? I have many!!! It got me thinking, where does the erotic
fixation with an object, event, material or activity come
from?
Can anyone remember what started their particular fetish?
If so I would be interested to know. I have been looking into
the subject and it has sparked my interest!
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RECOVERY IN THE LIFESTYLE 3/24/2006
RECOVERY IN THE LIFESTYLE IS A GROUP OF PEOPLE IN RECOVERY
FROM ADDICTION AND THERE SUPORTERS.WE MEET HERE IN SOUTH
FL. OUR MEMBERS ARE FROM ALL FORMS OF 12 STEP GROUPS. FRIENDS
AND SUPORTERS ARE WELCOME. WE JUST HAD OUR ONE YEAR ANIVERSARY
OF OUR GROUP. ABOUT 25 PEOPLE ATTEND REGULARY. THERE ARE
2 MEETINGS AT THIS POINT. IF YOU WISH TO OPEN A GROUP OR NEED
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Submissive's Rights 3/24/2006
As a Dominating guy I believe a submissive is here to serve
me for MY pleasure and use. I don't agree with subs having
limits. Are they trying to dictate to me what I can or can't
do? I'll decide if my sub as limits and I'll decide
what they are. I don't agree with punishing a sub just
cause I can but I will punish them for being tardy etc.
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The Tweeze Challenge! 3/22/2006
Is there anyone out there that is tired of having your lips
and face rubbed raw from pubic regrowth stubble while giving
head or eating pussy? If so, read on!!! I am here to tell you
there is a solution! TWEEZING...
Yes, you read correctly. Too painful you say. Yes at first
there is some pain involved but it does not last. After about
the ...
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having sex 3/15/2006
ok, if we are all here to have some good sex.way is it that
we still get the run around .is thar somthing that I'm
miss .I'm very open to new thing and like too tray new
things to .but you send the e-mail and yes you gest it .nothing
comes back .what is wrong with this picher .tell me
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Honesty... 3/13/2006
Funny how so many profiles demand or request honesty from
anyone who may wish to contact the person in the profile
isn't it?
Even funnnier is the number of BS artists who post a completely
inaccurate profile then insist that everyone else be honest.
DUHHH !!
Then to top the list are the profiles that list "desires"
that are completely incompatible. Like ...
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The Arrival, duo 3/6/2006
So he did as he was told, folding his jacket on a nearby chair.
He did not like being told to do this as he wanted to use a hanger
instead. But i wouldn't let him do that as i knew he was
a total fusspot and this would annoy him.
When I got back into the room, it was still standing there,
like the little mush puppy that it really was. God, how he
disgusted ...
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Ever been humiliated, and liked it? 3/5/2006
I was interested in knowing if there were other people like
me who get extremely turned on by humiliation. For me, I
love it when someone humiliates my little dick. Are there
any others who get turned on by similiar interests, and
have you ever experienced the humiliation?
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When the student is ready.... 3/2/2006
The teacher will appear. And that he did in the form of my
first lover in 1999. He exposed me to BDSM and delicious
sex. Sadly, he passed into the universe on 2/28/2006.
<br>
I will never forget all the lessons he taught me, the difference
he brought to the mundane life I was living and the pain both
emotional and physical that was endured during the relationship.
I referred ...
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tits 2/28/2006
I never under stood why most guys an girls like bigger tits
Girls want to have them enlarged guys want to look at an feel
bigger, what is wrong with 32/34/36, A/B/C/cup I say be
your self an be happy with what you have.P.S.Girls I like
them smaller my mouth and hands can only hold so much.
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Silk Scarves and Bondage 2/19/2006
As a mature adult male with a fetish for silks and satins,
especially silk scarves and scarf bondage I have always
loved to incorporate silk scarves into my fetish play but
I have met with some scepticism and negative responses
to my beloved fetish. I.ve heard some say scarf bondage
is dangerous, ,(not, I've been doing it for many years
and never had any dangerous situations), I've heard ...
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Why I love Blood 2/14/2006
There is an interesting gender difference in blood sports.
More women than men seem to be involved in blood play. Before
I state My case, I want to say that I think men are capable
of understanding and excelling at blood sports. I know
many men who thoroughly enjoy and revel in blood play. If
you are a man, that does not mean you cannot or do not enjoy
blood. However, I think that the ...
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13 Votes
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Neues Jahr Neues Erfahrung, New Year New Ideas 2/12/2006
Neues Jahr Neues Erfahrung, New Year New Ideas
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So ist das Neue hier und ich will, bekommen heraus und werden
nackt mit gemerkten Leuten anderer Messe, aber im Moment
hier in Deutschland sein ein bisschen zur Kälte, um sich
von der Außenseite aber vielleicht im März auszuziehen,
als ich den Urlaub von drei Wochen bekam, könnte das für
ein Nacktes Hanky Panky im Wald ein ...
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Financial Humiliation 2/9/2006
What the hell is it? And how do you come about financially
humiliating someone?
Do you take their credit cards and run them up to their limits?
Write a bunch of bad checks? I had a member email me about
this.
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236 Views,
4 Votes
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The Alt men 2/7/2006
Having met many men from this online community I have to
say they have done a great job with this website. It is the
most easy place to find people and groups with the same interests.
I have had over 7000 hits since joining. They never cancel
on you and they show great imagination. Way to go ALT !!!
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6 Votes
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February - The month of Love 2/6/2006
Valentine’s Day – A day for cards, flowers, (gardenias
or white roses), expensive dinners, champagne (or in my
case sparkling cider), aromatic candles, “I love yous”,
red furry handcuffs and “please beat me!”
<br>
The significance of this day can overwhelm a person if you
have no significant other to pledge undying adoration
or vice versa, exchange a valentine beanie ...
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The STRAP-ON 2/4/2006
I can't help but wonder about a strap-on dildo. I understand
how the person recieving it would get enjoyment from it,
but I don't understand what the wearer gets out of it.
How does it stimulate the person wearing it? I've never
had the courage to ask someone how it works. Could someone
in here please explain it to me?
<br>
I'm serious in my request. I'm not asking for porn ...
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185 Views,
3 Votes
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the meaning of collars? 2/3/2006
We are both fairly new to the lifestyle although we have
been together many years. We have Sir has mentioned coloring
me. I would like and need opinions on what a collar means.
Thank you. (Lady_M)
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