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fecking women! 10/11/2004
Woah...hold on there, men play games as much as women!
personally I don't see the point in saying you will
meet with someone and then don't. Just tell that person
straight up you DON"T want to meet with them and be
done with it, but so many men and women like to play their
childish games!
To me that just says that these people are role-players
and have no intentions of ever acting out ...
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Re: The New Racism in BDSM...ask oneself ..are you guilty 10/11/2004
True, so true!
people set themselves up for failure by setting their standards
to high.
What makes people think that they are better than someone
with a handicap? maybe just in their own pathetic minds
they are!
Keep a chin up those with handicaps, for the right moment
and time will come to you.
I have no handicaps myself but I do have one thing...an open
mind!
No one is better ...
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Hopefully this will resolve some concerns for us members 10/11/2004
In response to Miss_coco as saying: The single guy would
then send a message to the members (it helps to have an intelligent
looking message with good grammar and spelling, guys).
Now isn't that also a form of prejudice?
Maybe the person writing their profile or answering their
letter can't write English to well but it doesn't
make them a bad person either!
I have met many whose writing ...
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Re: The New Racism in BDSM...ask oneself ..are you guilty 10/4/2004
I can understand how you are feeling..as a black domme (and a handicap one at that), I have a dual disadvantage, but I know what I want and who I would be interested in, so for those prospective submissives who wouldn’t be interested in me, it’s their loss, because I know I will find someone who is legit and wants to fulfill my desires and also have no problem being seen with me in public. ...
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Hopefully this will resolve some concerns for us members 10/4/2004
As with any personal ad site, when you send a message to someone, you have to expect that sometimes you may not get a reply. There are various reasons for the non-reply:
-Member doesn’t wish to reply because of lack of compatibility; Member makes the determination by either seeing the sender’s info next to the message header or viewing the profile, and ascertains whether or not there ...
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Hard Limits, a submissive's right 10/3/2004
I grow weary of defending my hard limits. Every time I read
an article or hear a Dom/me expound on the belief that a submissive
person should allow the Dom/me to 'help' with
these limits, my anger flares. I have yet to read an article
by a Dom/me declaring that they should work on expanding
experiences that they have no interest in!
<br>
Some Dominants believe that they are ...
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Hard Limits, a submissive's right 10/3/2004
I grow weary of defending my hard limits. Every time I read
an article or hear a Dom/me expound on the belief that a submissive
person should allow the Dom/me to 'help' with
these limits, my anger flares. I have yet to read an article
by a Dom/me declaring that they should work on expanding
experiences that they have no interest in!
<br>
Some Dominants believe that they are ...
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instant messenger 9/28/2004
just a thought to those of you who use the imc. There is no
reason to call someone a snob because you were declined
a chat and to the persistant one out there, you are a coward
that after I finally respond to your name calling you don't
even reply. We are on this site because we are into different
likes ect.., ever think not everybody is into what you like?
So before you decide to react ...
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Re: Another Penis Pic 9/24/2004
I have to disagree with the person that posted that this site is for people seeking "sensual pleasure". I'm certain that many on this site are solely seeking that - but I'm also certain that many are not seeking only the softer side of BDSM. Personally, I came here to find a submissive that is into pain (and luckily for Me I found her here!) as I enjoy some of the rougher and messier aspects of ...
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Re: Penis Pix 9/22/2004
I am a little tired of people complaining about penis pix!
Take the ones you like and frame them! Put the penis pics
on your fridge as a motivation device; goals you are seeking
to accomplish! If your e-mail is being bombarded with them,
you have a point, but make it clear upfront that you don't
want men sending you their penis pics--unless they truly
are exceptional-- or block the ...
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1 Votes
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Re: Penis Pix 9/22/2004
I am a little tired of people complaining about penis pix!
Take the ones you like and frame them! Put the penis pics
on your fridge as a motivation device; goals you are seeking
to accomplish! If your e-mail is being bombarded with them,
you have a point, but make it clear upfront that you don't
want men sending you their penis pics--unless they truly
are exceptional-- or block the ...
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Re: Penis Pix 9/22/2004
I am a little tired of people complaining about penis pix!
Take the ones you like and frame them! Put the penis pics
on your fridge as a motivation device; goals you are seeking
to accomplish! If your e-mail is being bombarded with them,
you have a point, but make it clear upfront that you don't
want men sending you their penis pics--unless they truly
are exceptional-- or block the ...
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Cybers 9/17/2004
I really wish people would be up front in contacts. If they
only want a nights jerk off then say so, and if their is a connection
and you get what you want at least bow out nicely in gratitude
rather than just a shut out. Wham bam thank you ma'am
is preferable to just wham bam ..........
<br>
Where have all the manners gone with such people ?
<br>
Karen Ooz
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Re: Response to Who's Running This Asylum... 9/16/2004
1-The article is properly placed and is exactly where it
should be.
2-Don't try to force your judgemental crap on me. I'll
decide where to put my articles. If the placement bothers
you, don't read them.
3-Try to advance your reading level above the comic book
stage. If you have trouble with the length of the article,
try taking it one word at a time.
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quick to judge 9/11/2004
have you noticed the last few months people are quick to
jump and lable someone a troll just for asking innocent
questions..like if anyone is local to them...think back
didnt we all say ..hi anyone from <insert city/town
here>..but did that make us trolls??? i dont think so..i
say relax on them a bit you never know what lies beneath...they
may be good people.
being new does not mean ...
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Re: Penis Pix 9/10/2004
I have to agree with whoever said ENOUGH to penis pix..I
myself have been bombarded with penis pix..its ok that
you have a nice package..but, if you don't have the
mental abililty to stimulate me, then what makes you think
that your cock is gonna do it? I would prefer to see the whole
body..and fully clothed is fine with me..and a nice face
shot is nice as well...
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Remember the car commercial that said......... 9/10/2004
Do u remember that car commercial where the phrase "Wider
is Better"..?well i'd like to know where all
the wider guys are hiding?u know the guys of average length
maybe a little less..but babys got GIRTH!!...WHERE R U
ALL??????so sick and tired of being told one thing but when
the day comes to see...its not all they made it out to be..why
do men have to indulge even the slightest?i dont ...
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Re: Penis Pix 9/10/2004
I have to agree with whoever said ENOUGH to penis pix..I
myself have been bombarded with penis pix..its ok that
you have a nice package..but, if you don't have the
mental abililty to stimulate me, then what makes you think
that your cock is gonna do it? I would prefer to see the whole
body..and fully clothed is fine with me..and a nice face
shot is nice as well...
0 Comments,
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11 Votes
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Re: Penis Pix 9/10/2004
I have to agree with whoever said ENOUGH to penis pix..I
myself have been bombarded with penis pix..its ok that
you have a nice package..but, if you don't have the
mental abililty to stimulate me, then what makes you think
that your cock is gonna do it? I would prefer to see the whole
body..and fully clothed is fine with me..and a nice face
shot is nice as well...
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13 Votes
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RE: Who 's Running This Asylum Anyway? 9/8/2004
Let me suggest you submit this as a magazine article instead
of a Rant! You certainly have a lot to say, but, my god, I have
seen shorter novels!
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Just a thought 9/5/2004
I'm sitting here, conversing with many within this
"lifestyle" and the same thing keeps popping
up over and over and over. Ok well aside from the ever present
cock hehehe But seriously; The lack...Of Community. THere
once was a time when subs called and meant the wird...sister,
or brother. There are still a few like this but not as many.
When did it become a competitive sport? What ...
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My idea of where the human mind can go through spiritual bdsm 9/1/2004
A Path to the Truth…
I could be rushing into the sun, burning brighter and brighter
until I am nothing but ash, and never know I had even started.
I could jag and race and still wonder when I would even start,
and how, you ask, could I be so oblivious? And I would ask,
how would I know? I have been shrieking through all of this,
is it surprising that I shriek into you? Propelling myself ...
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RE: Another Penis Pic 9/1/2004
It is real simple, this is a site for members seeking sensual
pleasure! If you don't like the pics of a penis, pussy,
tits, or ass, don't look at the offending profile;
how hard it that! This isn't a church group! People
post pics to attract others and to showoff for others! I
welcome all the pictures I can see! Thanks, doing it!
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RE: RACISM??? 8/30/2004
As an African-American female who have frequented this
site, as well as other venues, I can say that there are a good
number of Caucasian males who are interested in African-American
females. I have had no problem finding tpatient to take the time and find them. hem. You just have
to be
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Standard Members' concerns 8/30/2004
I can understand the Standard Members’ gripes about their
limitations on the site. When I was a premium member, I have
sent my concerns to customer service, but nothing seemed
to have changed where the Standard Members are concerned,
if anything, more restrictions were enforced to their
disadvantage. The only advice I can give is to find another
venue to find your mate if being on this ...
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Re: INCONSIDERATE PEOPLE 8/30/2004
As with any personal ad site, when you send an inquiry to
someone, you have to expect that sometimes you may not get
a reply. There are various reasons for the non-reply:
<br>
Ø Member doesn’t wish to reply because of not being interested
in responding;
Ø Member doesn’t frequent the site enough than most members
to view messages/winks, thus taking longer than most members ...
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Who's Running This Asylum, Anyway? 8/30/2004
This is the first of a series of four articles.
<br>
Early in 2004, I lost my significant other to a job transfer
and, not long after, I came back onto Alt. I mentioned in
one of the earlier versions of my profile that I ran a DS website
for novice fem-subs for three years back in the mid 90’s.
I had to give it up because it became completely overwhelming.
In retrospect, ...
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Re: is it just me or is alt.com a bit picky when it comes to pics? 8/30/2004
I have been a standard and premium member on and off of this
site and another sister site and I have had to deal with the
photos department on numerous occasions with regards
to the content of photos that were initially declined but
then accepted and posted. It is hard to constantly have
to fight with a department who has the power to accept or
decline the most innocent to the most ...
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9 Votes
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Re: Are we not human-beings as well? 8/28/2004
I am really surprised to learn there are so many hateful
people on here as is described in this persons note. I am
a plus sized person myself and in truth have only come across
one rude person and that was in a chat. I simply hit ignore
and went on to talk to someone else. If someone does not fit
with what you consider to be your "ideal" then
just move on. There is no good excuse for being ...
0 Comments,
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9 Votes
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Re: Are we not human-beings as well? 8/28/2004
I am really surprised to learn there are so many hateful
people on here as is described in this persons note. I am
a plus sized person myself and in truth have only come across
one rude person and that was in a chat. I simply hit ignore
and went on to talk to someone else. If someone does not fit
with what you consider to be your "ideal" then
just move on. There is no good excuse for being ...
0 Comments,
23 Views,
8 Votes
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