Close Please enter your Username and Password
Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
Password reset link sent to
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service

slave4u71 63 F
9 Articles
Score 0.0
Re: Are we not human-beings as well?   8/28/2004

I am really surprised to learn there are so many hateful people on here as is described in this persons note. I am a plus sized person myself and in truth have only come across one rude person and that was in a chat. I simply hit ignore and went on to talk to someone else. If someone does not fit with what you consider to be your "ideal" then just move on. There is no good excuse for being ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 9 Votes ,5.56 Score
Master_of_cyn 61 C
5 Articles
Score 0.0
Re: Are we not human as well?   8/26/2004

If people are out there in the BDSM community and playing they only have to look around BDSM clubs to see that what would be considered a plus size is the majority. My sub says having a boney ass and having it beat is like wacking your funny bone on a door jam! Some padding is better if you are being whipped, flogged, cropped etc. in MHO.


0 Comments, 35 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
MissMaddie 56 F
1 Article
Score 0.0
Are we not human-beings as well?   8/22/2004

It is a crime for us "large" people to be in this site? Are we not allowed to be in here as well so we can seek a partner or to live out our lives as we chose to? We are human-beings just like anyone else and we have the right to be in this site! Am I supposed to accept degrading, mean, hatefull, perverted messages just because I don't look like a model?? If you dont like the way I ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 18 Votes ,7.49 Score
slave4u71 63 F
9 Articles
Score 0.0
Re: ANOTHER picture of a penis???!!!   8/22/2004

I have to agree with this artical. I recently received a letter from a Dom who in his last line said "Can you get on your knees and worship the man in this picture?" The picture of course was of someone from top of his chest to just above the knees sitting in a chair, naked of course. I was not impressed and said as much to him.To be perfectly honest the last thing I am interrested in ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 18 Votes ,7.22 Score
smeesme2004 60 M
9 Articles
Score 0.0
awe   8/20/2004

How the female form does inspire! Good god. to be able to make a woman gush cup fulls repeatedly and draw out all three types of orgasms over and over again.... Until the mear touch elicits further gushing ! Well, empowering is a feeble word to be sure. All the orgasmic power of the female form forbids its use. The shear power of womanly workings of sensuality and desire reckon with none ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 15 Votes ,4.82 Score
PAIN_INC 74 M
5 Articles
Score 0.0
Disrespect   8/9/2004

I recently attended a protocol dinner party at the invatation of another dom. Although I feel that he and I have a vast difference of styles, I still felt a level of respect for him. That is until he started making me the brunt of his jokes, not only in front of my collared slave, but also in front of his other guest and his submissives. He had the arrogance to tell my slave what he ...


0 Comments, 94 Views, 38 Votes ,8.80 Score
xpantyslutx 40 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
Swiftboat men for the Truth   8/8/2004

Has any one heard anything about the Swiftboat Vetrean's for the Truth? They are a group of about 200 men that served with John Kerry in Veitnam and their sole purpose is to make sure that he does not get elected because of the shameful things he did during the Vietnam war.


0 Comments, 46 Views, 39 Votes ,1.69 Score
spanksnkisses 87 M
6 Articles
Score 0.0
Re: Winks   8/5/2004

I wonder if the people who are complaining about getting 'winks' understand that 'notes' etc., cannot be attached with winks. The only way to send any text is by email, and Standard Members aren't able to do that. A 'wink' from a Standard Member to another Standard Member can 'only' be acknowledged by a return wink, if they're interested. Unfortunately, it's a Standard Member's 'only' ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 36 Votes ,7.99 Score
mOng0 73 M
2 Articles
Score 0.0
re: winks   8/4/2004

ummm....isn't it about sub / dom? perhaps they are good subs and don't wish to piss off prospective dom with impertinent questions and await your response to tell them what to do...or they are standards like many of us and cannot do shit on this site without paying to find out that the monthly charge doesn't get you anything except dead or inactive links with mostly malingery people....just ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 18 Votes ,5.85 Score
IrishPrincess4 61 F
13 Articles
Score 0.0
Response to "Winks"   8/3/2004

Dearest Mistress Catharine and Maitre Pierre, <br> Not everyone abides by the same code of etiquette that you do. Some are just maybe fascinated by the two of you and too shy to write a "one liner", but maybe wish to hear from you. Others may be new to the scene and are not sure how to approach two such sophicates such as yourselves, so they wink. I don't think they mean to ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 35 Votes ,7.99 Score
mOng0 73 M
2 Articles
Score 0.0
is it just me or is alt.com a bit picky when it comes to pics?   7/29/2004

am I the only one having problems getting these people to accept a pic? it simply keeps being rejected no matter what I do to comply with the "rules" no specifics about why even after an email with a query as to why. it was just a touch over the allowed 50 k (55 to be axact) so I made it smaller and still it is rejected. I asked them is the fact I have a cigar in my hand the problem to no ...


1 Comments, 34 Views, 27 Votes ,7.55 Score
mikem469 52 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
Some of you people really need to get laid (re:spelling errors)   7/27/2004

Jesus H Christ, I can't believe how many of you people are pissing and moaning about spelling errors. GET OVER IT!! Yes a spellcheck would be nice, but there is not one and your whining about the errors in spelling will not change anything. Just a quick rant here because I can't believe how many topics are created for spelling.


2 Comments, 61 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
T80Darts48 60 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
pop goes the balloon   7/26/2004

While at a friend of ours My wife was given a balloon as a gift as she left, she had to go onto ft know to pick up her at work and was telling me about her gift on the cell phone, as she drove up to the gate guard who sees her all the time he told her "Not you again" then looked into the car and gose oh my god what is shape of a cock and balls balloon she got her ID back and drov that ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 10 Votes ,0.40 Score
spanksnkisses 87 M
6 Articles
Score 0.0
Re: Replying to messages   7/24/2004

I totally agree with the articles written about the lack of manners of some female members who receive messages and don't respond to them. I know that women get a lot more messages than the men do, but the fact that they do have an Ad in the system, as long as it's an 'active' one (which we all know are in the minority, especially among standard members), they should show some common ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 17 Votes ,3.55 Score
IrishPrincess4 61 F
13 Articles
Score 0.0
Reply to Response to DO MEN READ PROFILES   7/24/2004

Although the writer is entitled to his opinion, which I respect, I have every right to be here, as a curious, inquistive, new to the scene, novice exploring the lifestyle, without being bombarded with unwanted emails. <br> If one thoroughly reads through a Profile, which I assume one would do before responding to a Profile, and finds that a person is "just looking", why does ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 13 Votes ,5.16 Score
BelleMorte 53 F
14 Articles
Score 0.0
Re: This is 2004   7/23/2004

This is a response to This is 2004.... <br> You must have a very small picture, of what America is about, or you really believe everything you read in the newspapers or TV. In case your own school & college books haven't gone beyond 1972 for example...America has come a long way since the days Jim Crowe. In fact, America has come so far along....That the KKK (biggest&longest ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
smeesme2004 60 M
9 Articles
Score 0.0
INTENT   7/20/2004

Bondage....The intent, to bind and render helpless. At my mercy. Sexually admired, lusted over for hours. To pet and fondle, to use you as I see fit. To bind your back to a door with legs spread wide and hands high. Your sweetbody bare and open to my desires... Hungrily but with slow deliberate jaw clenching lust, run my warm hands all over you. Touching your skin everywhere...my lips ...


0 Comments, 58 Views, 10 Votes ,6.57 Score
grahdom 73 M
3 Articles
Score 0.0
GETTING SOME F**KING FEEDBACK   7/8/2004

Hi to A/all I really would like to have a good bitch about the lack of feedback Novice Dom's get, now I know that it may be difficult for all you darling sexy sub's out there to reply every inquiry that you get but all I am asking is that you reply to just 1 MINE!!!! Look at it from Our side of the fence, I know I'm letting my self down but it would be nice to have some one let me know ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 25 Votes ,2.03 Score
hoodedsnake 65 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
Are there any active members or are the ads all nonactive members?   7/6/2004

I have been a premium member a couple of times. I have found that most of the ads posted are no longer active members. Why doesn't alt delete those ads? Is it so they can claim to have a large membership? I don't feel it is worth the money to look at old ads. Does any one else agree? Also having to be a premium to view ads is deterrent to getting a membership. It is an expensive way to ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 42 Votes ,9.01 Score
johann468 65 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
Most ubiquitous and stupid spelling error   7/3/2004

I am amazed at all the supposedly college-educated people who don't know the difference between the verb "dominate" and the adjective "dominant". It must show up wrong in full half of the people advertising. Does anybody proof-read?


0 Comments, 36 Views, 30 Votes ,7.06 Score
MasterRick3 76 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
Rude people   7/1/2004

I am tired or getting rude replys from people who don't fill out their profiles, then get mad at you because your not what their looking for. How are we to know what kind of person your looking for if you don't tell us?


0 Comments, 30 Views, 23 Votes ,7.57 Score
BelleMorte 53 F
14 Articles
Score 0.0
Learn the BASICS....Learn how to SPELL!!!!   6/30/2004

Hey A/all... <br> Ok...Here's My bitchfest! <br> Steps up on My soapbox... <br> For the new people coming into the chats rooms if Y/you DON'T know the basics of the Lifestyle please take the time, energy, and effort to look up BDSM on any search engine and READ, READ, READ!!!! Do not make it the job of the Dom/mes and subs/slaves to educate Y/you when ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 17 Votes ,4.26 Score
Cherirose 66 T
3 Articles
Score 0.0
Picky-Picky-Picky   6/28/2004

As a “lifestyle” submissive, I was fortunate enough to be owned by a beautiful Professional Dominate and in that relationship that lasted 20 years. During that time and my subsequent involvement as a Dominate myself, I am always amazed at the people involved in alternate lifestyles. I am constantly amazed at the extremes of behavior encounter in different scenes. There are ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
manjoman30 75 M
10 Articles
Score 0.0
Non Support   6/26/2004

I feel this site mostly works because of all the articles, stories and advice. The time spent doing these things that keep this site going is rewarded with points so I have shared my knowledge and given advice on many things here for those points. My rant is: I had about 540 points that I had not used and to add to them I wrote an article, answered a question or two and voted on a few ...


0 Comments, 60 Views, 10 Votes ,6.57 Score
LixterPR 55 M
2 Articles
Score 0.0
Adding a comments section to the fetish checklist   6/26/2004

One of the problems with the checklist is that it is fairly difficult to negotiate with facts. For instance: Do I have experience being hairy? Huh? Either I am, or I am not. There is no experience involved. <br> The other side of the coin is defining experience. Yes, my last wife insisted on being shackled on many occassions. On the other hand, it was one specific way ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
angelhard 59 M
2 Articles
Score 0.0
Breakfast in Seattle or the trials and tribulations of a wine selling roadie   6/11/2004

When one wakes up in the morning and peeks outside, at least in the neighborhood I'm in, you get a sense of a city going through a kind of renaissance. The old buildings have interesting modern architectural new touches, the street is chock a block full of small galleries with good modern art, the antique stores feature Scandinavian fifties designers, the coffee shops look hip and active. ...


0 Comments, 103 Views, 16 Votes
Cherirose 66 T
3 Articles
Score 0.0
Dating Older Ladies and Young Ones too...   6/9/2004

Dating Older Ladies should be no different than dating young chicks. All, I repeat, ALL ladies should be treated like ladies. Submission has nothing to do with this. This is common decency. What does it cost the dater to be civil, open doors, hold chairs out and talk without vulgarity? First Impressions do make a difference. Guys!! Cock shots are discusting. You may be ...


0 Comments, 71 Views, 18 Votes ,5.58 Score
GoJersey46 44 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
don't show low integrity   6/6/2004

I went out with this woman last year. We were both kinda looking for a friend with benefits. She was pretty much at the bottom of my physical standards, but I figured I'd take care of my needs for one night and then go back to my search the next day. Well we're talking at a bar, and this poor thing just hadn't had it in too long. And she's starting to look at me like I'm the man of her ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 22 Votes
gypsee14 70 M
3 Articles
Score 0.0
Do you ever wonder??   6/4/2004

Lots of times when i am browsing through all the beautiful babes that live around my zip code, im amazed at some of the great pictures they have posted. But you know i wonder who took that picture? what were they thinking or doing at the time. Did some woman set up the shot and take the pic herself? i know some shots are just pic in front of a web cam but some are obviously well taken ...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 19 Votes ,4.31 Score
dlb197633549 76 M
4 Articles
Score 0.0
Your housekeeping sucks, cyberslaves!   6/3/2004

After log-in and working for several minutes my various lists (sent messages, winks, new members, people who viewed me, etc.) return to settings of several weeks prior. The only way to get back the current lists is log in again. Today I am attempting to look at my sent mail. The list shows a number well over 100. Every time I click on it it only displays email from 5/9 even though I've sent ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 17 Votes ,7.23 Score