Who I am:
My name is Peggy O. I have been in the lifestyle for about 25 years.
I am looking for a power balanced relationship based on partnership that includes BDSM but isn't based on it.
What I can offer:
I am service oriented with the right person. I am a decent cook, well organized and am capable of being a good support person in various endeavors. I also am good taking a leadership role in areas the other person may not be versed in, such as technical rock climbing, skiing and sailing. I am a good workout partner. I am also a skilled travel arranger and tour guide; I lived in Europe for many years and enjoy showing people around my former stomping grounds. I can be sexually submissive for the right person in the right situations notably scene/sexual/interpersonal interactions. I am seeking a primary relationship with the right person. I also enjoy learning new things - particularly things related to outdoor skills.
What I cant offer:
I am not interested in Ds outside of specific areas. There are aspects of my life which are not available for outside control - notably career, family and financial decisions. I'm not particularly femme and dont do well with a high femme look, so I cant offer a frilly sort of femmy kind of person. I'm much more the athletic/outdoorsy sort of girl. So if you want someone to dress up like Barbie, that's not me. But if you want someone to ski with, hike a 14er, do a mud run or plan your next epic, I'm probably in. I am not available for long distance relationships. Someone who lives somewhere else but visits Denver on business, no matter how frequently is still long distance in my book. I am not interested in being someones business trip booty call. I also cannot relocate. Also, please, no unicorn hunters or married guys.
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My Ideal Person:
What I seek: I am seeking a primary relationship with a man. I am interested in meeting someone who is athletic as well as being a very experienced top. I want someone who would possibly be interested in partnering me doing technical rock and ice climbing (if you want to learn, I can teach), who is happy skiing in the winter and who enjoys intense scenes that can easily spill over into the cathartic or the primal. I want someone with whom I can have a relationship based on partnership as opposed to based on hierarchy. A plus would be someone who has studied traditional Japanese martial arts and understands concepts such as Budo and Bushido. I am looking for someone who lives in the Denver metro or Front Range areas. And the hardest of all
..chemistry
that indefinable, magical spark that happens between two people and you cant really explain why. You just know that it is.
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